Okay Rik, you asked for it�
In my previous entry, I mentioned giving my friend Shane aka The Love, the bestest directions for going down town to the fish market. Ahem. Eating out a gal.
Now. What I am about to share is what I have found to be the most effective way to make my vision blur and my lungs work over time. (You know, the good stuff)
I give to you a simple way to get an orgasm out of your Lady partner�
First. (And I�m saying this because I will not assume every guy knows this.) First, you have to do some serious foreplay and even more teasing. I�m not talking about giving hickeys or grinding into your girl's pelvis. I�m talking about the nicer stuff, like taking her hands into yours and rubbing them gently while you kiss her neck. And just kiss it for crying out loud. Don�t treat her like a stamp.
Use a lot of touching while kissing. Most girls like lots of lip action. At first kiss her mouth with very little, or no tongue at all. It eventually gets really intense and the tongue naturally follows. Every now and then, while you are kissing her, let her know how much you desire her by pulling her close to you. Almost like you�re hugging her while you�re smooching.
Gosh. Now you�ll all know how to seduce me.
I happen to hate it if a guy is undressing me and doesn�t give me a chance to undress him by the time I�m naked. It doesn�t feel like we�re going into it together if he�s completely dressed while I�m standing there in front of him, completely nude. If your girl is not the type who is going to undress you, do it yourself. If you unbutton her top and she hasn�t reached for you belt or your shirt � do it yourself. It�s nice to be undressing at the same time. It�s more unified and feels much more in sync and that makes a gal feel COMFORTABLE. Key word. It�s just SO much easier to have an orgasm if we feel comfort.
Continue kissing and touching and rubbing and licking, and if you�re feeling a bit playful, nibbling never caused anyone I know, to complain. I�m not going to go into the particulars, because all men should know that if a woman wants you badly enough, EVERYWHERE you touch, is going to be sheer pleasure. But do not go near her pussy yet. Just save that for later. As much as you want to run your fingers down there to feel how wet she is � don�t do it. We love to be teased. Purposely ignoring the reason the two of you are naked sends us into a tense frenzy. Even if we grab your hand and guide it down. Be firm, shake your head and whisper, �not yet.�
Give her about five to ten more minutes of serious smooching and exploring.
Then begin your descent. Slowly make your way down her chest and stomach with sweet, wet kisses. If you�re feeling playful, pause and give her �the smirk�. You know. The one that says, �You�re gonna get it.�
Now you�re staring the beauty in the face and ready to go to town, right?
Wrong.
Do not go in there just yet.
Her legs should be wide open by now, but place you hands on the inside of both thighs and spread them open just a little wider. Kiss her thighs. Alternate that with gently dragging your fingers across them. If you have properly given her some serious foreplay, every spot on her body, especially around her pussy, should be super sensitive.
Don�t play around too long; this is just a technique to make her want your face in her lap more and more.
When you feel ready, place your lips right in front of her clit. (So help me Jeezuss, if you do not know what a clit is, you shouldn�t be reading this and are ordered to pursue any options of being gay. Serious.) Breathe a nice warm breath before you go in, across her thighs. Then slowly and very tenderly begin tonguing her clit. Don�t move too fast and don�t suck on it. Slow, wet, lapping will totally do it. Your hands should be palm down, fingers slightly spread, around her box with your cheeks resting on the back of your hands. Make sense?
Pause for a moment, lick your finger and slip it inside. If she gasps or clenches or tugs at something, you know she likes vaginal stimulation with the licking. In order to do that, turns your hand palm up. Your two middle fingers should be in her while the surrounding two should be gently spreading her labia open to make room for your tongue. Don�t jam your hand in and out. Leave it in and gently make circles inside while slightly moving in and out. It sounds strange, but eventually you get the idea. If you leave your hand in and just rub the top of her channel, you might be able to find her G spot. It will feel like a small sponge. You are going to know if you find it. Gently rub it all the while lapping at her clit. Keep your face as close as possible. It feels really great when our pussy stays warm and wet. Do what you can to keep it that way.
I�m not sure if I was able to describe it well enough, but it�s very simple and ULTRA effective. Hope you have fun.
**On a separate note, I�m guessing everyone has seen the news and is aware of the earthquake tragedy in South East Asia. I called the Red Cross last night and got an address, and in case anyone else was interested in sending donations toward recovery and relief, here�s their info. J
If want to give them a call to and make donation over the phone, their number is:
1-800-HELP-NOW.
Check and Money order donations can be mailed to:
Tsunami Earthquake Response
PO Box 97089
Washington DC 20090
**Make checks or money orders payable to Tsunami Earthquake Response
For New Years Eve, I�ll be amongst good friends in a very gorgeous penthouse on South Street in Philly. Hopefully I�ll have some hot tub pictures to share ;)
HAPPY NEW YEAR to YOU!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!
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