...and your puny relationship trends.
SO. The Chad, my boyfriend, is no longer my boyfriend. After little deliberation, the jury was hung 12 to zero, in favor of cutting the little prick (literally) loose, never to return. Thank You.
Wanna know what happened? Of course you do!
First of all, I have known this kid for a little over two months now, and just recently boyfriended him on November 6th� I almost KNEW he wasn�t going to last two weeks.
Anyway, about a week ago, The Chad started behaving a little different and VERY clipped with his conversations with me over the phone, but when he was with me in person, he was a sweet and doting boyfriend.
I�m not stupid. And I don�t get played. Period.
I bided my time like a snake in the grass, waiting for the perfect moment to break up with him� and then it happened. Over the weekend, I had a conversation with him about how far outside of his life I felt. He never included me. I hadn�t seen where he lived yet, I haven�t met any of his friends and we NEVER went anywhere. He would just pick me up from the train station after work, and then go to my apartment. Woo hoo, sounds like a great time * cough * SARCASM. We decided that he should at least call me every night before he went to bed, if he was too busy during the day with work or any other �responsibilities� to call me then. He couldn�t even do that.
I spoke to him on Sunday as he was walking into the stadium to watch the Eagles game � a game he never mentioned he was going to. I asked if he was coming to see me when the game was over and he said he didn�t know because him and HIS FRIENDS were probably going out afterward. I call him around 8:30 pm and he was AT HOME. So I say something like �oh, great! Does that mean you�re coming over??� He said he couldn�t because he had to work early the next morning�. WHAT?? Dood. He just got finished telling me that he couldn�t come over �cause they were going out to the bars after the game and it would run too late�now he�s saying he has to be in early!? SEE YA!
Monday � I hear nothing from him all day. I call at 5pm and he�s SO distant that I am fed up. I mean I am on fire about this boys� disrespect.
DO NOT call me your girl and treat me like your convenient fuck.
Say goodbye to this sweet pussy, you stupid chump. You had it so good and fucked it up.
Tuesday � I hear nothing from him AT ALL.
Wednesday � He calls me around 5:30 pm � sort of. He has this thing with clicking me on the Nextell and saying �yo�. Just yo. I cringe.
I�m starting to hate the word yo.
Basically I get into it with him because he doesn�t include me in his life. When I don�t hear from him or when I don�t get to see him, it�s because his friend needs this, or he HAS to take care of that, or because he needs to do something at work. He NEVER takes the time to check in on me and see how I�m doing. He NEVER made me a part of the daily things he had to take care of.
I really have NO problem if he doesn�t get to see me everyday or talk to me all night. All I asked was five minutes out of his day to say hello and hear his voice.
He couldn�t even DO that.
Whatever Dood! Move along and keep the line going�
Back to the breakup conversation� After explaining to him, at great lengths, how we are too different and how he�s too lax with his efforts to keep me happy, he starts talking about how I�m trying to control him
HA.
Yeah, I�m controlling him so much, I�m breaking up with him� idiot.
Then he says I�m acting crazy because he didn�t call me for two days� huh?
Did I EVEN mention he hasn�t called me for two days? � BASTARDO!!!
What a doofus. I tried AGAIN to explain how I feel outside of his life and I need someone who has more time for me � we just don�t work. I say, �Please be safe, and have a great Thanksgiving.� He continues to re-hash the conversation by telling me that he doesn�t handle authority well and how he just got out of a seven year relationship and how SHE controlled him and how he has done everything I asked him to.
OH where do I begin?
1. Authority � I�m assuming me asking him to call me once a day for five minutes, no questions asked, is authority???
2. SHE was controlling � sorry Babe, that was HER, not ME. I deserve treatment better than that. I DO NOT deserve to be treated like someone else � all the more reason why I can�t wait to get him out of my life. I refuse to have emotions transferred over to me.
3. He did everything I asked him to � he still has yet to get back to me about exactly what it is he DID for me� I recall nothing. This boy is talking out of his ASS�
Needless to say, eventually I was able to get him off the phone, perfectly understanding I was no longer his girlfriend � he can move on to another controlling bitch and I hope she milks him for all he�s worth. I say that because I am certain that there is someone else pumping his brain full of ill content about me, someone they�ve never met.
I don�t want a man that can�t think for himself.
Would you??
I can�t wait to tell AJ I�m single again� he he heeeeee.
11:57 AM - Friday, Nov. 26, 2004
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